One night, I went through a file of letters and cards that I have saved through the years - some made me laugh, and some made me cry...all of them made my heart smile!
Then there was the stack of old birthday, Christmas, and Valentine's cards. I opened one signed, "always, G.B." and was knocked, sobbing, to the floor. It was from my Granny...she always signed everything, "G.B." The memories - the joy of our days at her house came flooding back, but they were overpowered by the intense pain of knowing I will not see her anymore in this life. It hurt. In my chest, I felt this painful weight...I was all of a sudden hit by this grief that I didn't know I hadn't let myself experience. i guess I had been so worried about being strong or not letting my tears show, that I had pushed my grief away.
After my cry, I filed them all neatly away...deciding to keep them because they were so special to me. Sometimes, you need the THINGS and the MEMORIES!
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